We all want to be sexy and attractive to women. But, we never thought what is sexy? Clothes? Muscles? A confident smile? The bare open skin? What us sexy? Here are the answers you wanted to know.

These days, male sexiness isn't just based on being strong yet gentle, confident yet caring, powerful yet modest; they are also expected to have rock-hard Pecs and abs of steel.

First of all, what we need to know is – “Not all women are attracted to the same things”. You would like all women to like you. But, not all women are going to be attracted to you; just as you are not attracted to all women. So, you might as well focus your efforts on finding those who find you at least initially appealing.

Some women may find you appealing one day but not others, depending on what they're looking for at the moment. If she's just looking for an exciting partner for the night, a woman might choose someone entirely different from the man she'd like to have a relationship with. Women may look for a real "he-man" for the fling, even though in the long term they'd rather have someone they can really talk to.

We always hear women say that 'sensitive' is sexy. But if a guy is too sensitive, he isn't seen as manly. Many women would like a man to be sensitive and have the ability to talk about feelings. In fact, a woman will feel that if she can get intimate in conversation with a man, it will be easier to share physical intimacy. But at the same time, she wants him to have some kind of quality that represents manliness. That could mean many things to many women. It could mean having a large build or a protective quality, or being sexually aggressive.

Then, of course, there's the special sex appeal of wealth and power, which are still important to some women. Giving off that commanding vibe isn't always dependent on your bank balance. Some men are so supremely confident that they gain a degree of power just by moving through life that way. You could also take on an air of self-assurance by making more direct eye contact and not slouching.

Now, here is one real question. What can you do to improve your proportionate attractiveness, to display sex appeal? We look most attractive when we will be smiling. Though you look a bit, er, rumpled or with untied shoes, they may not care about it. On the positive side, they may say that you have a very nice face and that your beard brings out your blue eyes.

If you cultivate a warm and friendly approach to everyone you meet, you can call on that same attitude whenever you come across an attractive woman. Finally, relax and be yourself.

You just try out these techniques on your next date with your woman. Dress neatly, look her right in the eyes, and deliver your friendliest smile. In response, she treats you exactly the way she did before. It strikes you that she probably had your number right from the start, and nothing you do now is going to change her opinion. In which case, relaxing and being yourself is probably about the best thing you can do.