How to Caress a Woman's Nipples
Learning how to best please a woman can be tricky. While every woman is different and has different preferences, there are a few general rules that can be followed. You'll want to start by focusing on the basics first, such as how to caress a woman's nipples.
The first thing to know about how to caress a woman's nipples is that you want to start slow. Many men take a page from pornography and think that a woman likes her nipples to be fondled roughly. While some women do like this, you must build up to it. Start by gently massaging and rubbing the woman's breasts all over. While the nipples are one of the most sensitive parts of a woman's body, that doesn't mean you want to ignore the rest of her.
As you rub and massage her breasts, you should feel her nipples harden under your fingertips. This is a sign that you're doing something right. You can then begin to focus more on her nipples, but be sure to still massage her breasts as well. A good technique is to gently rub her nipples between your thumb and middle finger for a few seconds, then move back to her entire breast. You'll then switch to her other breast and repeat the process.
Some women like their nipples to be caressed for a long time, while others want you to move on to other parts of her body fairly quickly. Pay close attention to the woman. She will likely be giving you signs as to what she likes and it's up to you to pay attention. For example, if you find that rubbing a little harder elicits a pleasurable gasp or she begins to arch her back, this is a good indication that she likes what you're doing.
Of course the best way to know how to caress a woman's nipples is to ask her. However, you want to be careful to keep the mood sexy and not bring her out of her pleasure by asking in a cold or clinical way. As you massage or lightly pinch her nipples, whisper in her ear, “Do you like the way that feels?” If she says yes, you can then ask her, “Do you want it harder?” or “Do you want more?”
As you're working on how to caress a woman's nipples you want to remember that your hands shouldn't be doing all the work. You can also kiss, lick, suck and gently nibble on a woman's breasts and nipples as well. Some women's nipples are more sensitive than others and some women will want their nipples to be treated more roughly than others. If you have a woman's nipple in your mouth, try scraping your teeth over them very gently. If a woman is into it, she will likely gasp and push her breast toward your mouth. This should be viewed as a sign that she wants more.
The above tips on how to caress a woman's nipples are excellent starting points. Remember though, that you don't want to follow a step by step process that feels more like work than pleasure. Try out a few things and see what works. You might try massaging, gently pinching or even lightly biting her nipples and get no response. Yet you could then rub them between your thumb and middle finger and find that she melts in your hands. Don't be afraid to follow her clues and don't be afraid to try new things. When a women realizes that you're doing everything you can to please her, she'll be much more likely to feel comfortable giving you instructions on how you can make her scream with pleasure.