How to Prepare for Anal Sex
Anal sex can be the most sensual and pleasurable way to enjoy your partner. However, when not done correctly, it can be painful and unpleasant. In order to have the best anal sex experience, you need to learn how to prepare for anal sex.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 1 – Get Your Materials Ready
In order for anal sex to be the most pleasurable for both parties, you'll need lots of lube. There are many types to choose from and you might want to try out a few before deciding which one will work best for you. Silicon based lubes are thicker and usually provide for the most lubrication. On the other hand, water based lubes will require less reapplication. You'll want to be sure you have condoms on hand as well, and should also be sure that the lube you've selected is safe for condoms and won't decrease their effectiveness.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 2 – Work Up to It
If you're planning to have anal sex with someone who's never done it before, you'll want to make sure that you're taking care not to hurt him or her the first time. Get one another very aroused with oral and genital play. Once you're both excited, slip a pinky finger into their ass. Don't wiggle it around or push too far at first. Allow them to get used to the sensation before moving on to the next step.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 3 – Try Toys
In addition to digitally penetrating your partner's ass, you can also use toys to stretch them out in preparation for anal sex. Get a slim, small vibrator that's made exclusively for this purpose. Start by vibrating it around the anus, after lubing it up. You'll then gently and slowly insert it. Once they get more aroused, you'll slip it in further and further until they're begging for more.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 4 – Start Slowly
Once you've completed the first three steps, it's time to get started. When anal sex is first attempted, it will need to happen very slowly. Gently push the penis in, and stop, allowing your partner to get used to you inside them. Let them guide you by pushing back on you when they're ready for more. Keep in mind that any level of discomfort is very likely to ease within a few minutes. If it doesn't immediately feel good, you can stop and try another time, or simply give it a few minutes to see if the feelings don't improve.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 5 – Communicate With One Another
Once they're used to you and you're moving more quickly and roughly inside of them, make sure that they're keeping you abreast as to how it's feeling. Ask them if what you're doing feels good and pay attention to their answer. You want both parties to feel completely at ease and as though they can stop the anal sex at any time. Take your time and know that it can sometimes take a few tries before it starts to feel great.
How to Prepare for Anal Sex : Step 6 – Clean Up
Depending on how well you've prepared, there will be some clean up once it's over. It's best to get cleaned up right away. You can do this as a couple, jumping into the shower and washing each other throughly. You'll then be able to collapse back into bed and talk about your night of anal sex, giving each other tips and ideas on how you can improve the experience next time.